I spend lots of time in this column and over at A(n)nals of Online Dating documenting the worst of the worst internet daters. But there are also some really good ones — and some mediocre ones that could be so much better if not for rookie mistakes.
So, welcome to Internet Dating Bootcamp, where I'll teach you how to trick unsuspecting users into thinking you’re actually cool and normal. You need to be you in your online dating profile, but the process of creating one is a good time to think about what kindergarten teachers call “being your best self at school.” If you’re attracted to Type-A go-getter types who get up at 6am to exercise, emphasize your similar love of hard work. Want someone who shares your taste for obscure French films? No, not everyone wants to date a carbon copy of themselves, but most of us want to be with someone with some overlapping interests.
There isn’t one big secret to success at online dating.
It’s not your profile photo (though a good one helps). An awesome dating profile always stands out from the crowd It’s not how many messages you send out or how much time you spend browsing other people’s profiles.
I’ve learned that money and opportunities come and go, but your friends and family are always there to help you when you need it.
I hope one day I can pass down those qualities to a family of my own, and it’s why I work so hard today.
Unfortunately real, honest guys like me often get passed over because we don’t stand out among the hundreds on here trying to find a date by auto-blasting e-mails they have stored up on a hard drive.
All three profiles manage to stand out from the crowd – they’re unique and free of the usual online dating clichés that people have come to expect, while still showcasing the user’s true personality.
Each profile is different in the same way that each person is different – so we’ve showcased three of the most common “types” of online dating profiles.
while enjoying myself like I was a rock-star on tour.
Family and friends are most important to me in life.
Good Generic Example #1 Let’s face it, I don’t live the life of a rock-star or famous athlete …