He will give in if he becomes too dependant on her as a friend with benefit.
My theory is that a woman senses this dependency (it can even be subconscious) and begins to demand more structure to the relationship.
My SM compadre MP wrote an article about friends with benefits titled “Are We Together? Realistically speaking, how long can two people be in a relationship that is loosely defined by occasional (or frequent) casual sex? After 3 months casual sex turns into casual dating, where the booty call is preempted with dinner and a movie. You find yourself in a bf/gf relationship that you didn’t sign up for. Well it depends on what you and the other person want.
No Not Really…” In it he talks about how a friends with benefits relationship can work. Often times it is the woman who wants to be in bf/gf relationship and the guy does everything he can to stay out of one.
Guys are very content with a relationships being what it is. The simple fact is this: asking or pressuring someone into moving the relationship forward does not work.
” If the answer is Yes, be proactive and ask her to make it official. This will ensure that you will not be persuaded into a relationship down the line.
I also offer the same advice to women, if they find themselves in this situation.
As I read through the comments on Facebook over the weekend, I felt compelled to revisit the subject and I want to remind you of why it is a grave mistake to remain friends with an ex that has mistreated you.
The reason why we want to remain friends with our exes, even when they have treated us ‘less than’ with an absence of love, care, trust, and respect, is because we want to feel .
I met this guy through some friends and started liking him.