If you are reading this article it means that you’ve probably heard or read that taking it slow is the best approach to getting back your ex.But what does taking it slow with your ex really mean?Taking it slow in anything means slowing the pace at which things are moving forward so that you can go further much.When it comes to getting back your ex, taking it slow means that instead of rushing through the process, you take one small step, see it’s impact and then take the next small step.Take responsibility for the things that were your fault, apologize and see if your ex does the same.In an article for the Huffington Post, bestselling relationship author Diane Kirschner notes that a new emphasis on deep, meaningful conversation is a sign that your ex is ready to try again.
”Last but not least, taking it slow means not rushing the other person to a decision (any decision) until he/she is ready to make one.
Before you begin any relationship, including one with your ex, you must feel confident and emotionally healthy.
Likewise, you must both be willing to honestly examine your behavior in the relationship.
Reconciling with your ex can work, but it requires both partners to take a leap of faith and rebuild the relationship from the ground up.
Before you decide to reconcile, take a hard look at yourself, your ex and the reasons you broke up.
The most important part of taking things slow with your ex is “moving forward”.