The first thing here for you to consider before you start to analyze this to death is what made you check the dating site in the first place?
In most cases it’s our gut that gives us a feeling that something may be off. In other cases, there are some women that just don’t trust a man in general.
They are constantly on guard for something to go wrong and checking a dating site for the guy they are dating is part of their ritual. When a man is committed to you he is committed to contributing to your happiness as well.
If this is you, stop right here and please check out the Journey Inward and start doing some inner work. You won’t likely find him still active on a dating site.
We have never had a talk about exclusivity, so this is all fair game.
Seeing that he was online hurt me and threw me a little.
The first was when I was 20 and lasted seven months and the other was a on-and-off disaster that ended a few months ago. It’s only been five dates over three weeks, but to me it feels like I’ve known him much longer.You can’t control what anybody else does, you can only control your actions and reactions to things.” He also suggests that women should “go in with the confidence that they’re going to love you and they’re more likely to love you.The more you worry about how often he’s logging on, and who else he’s dating, and why he hasn’t taken his profile down, the more likely you are to come across as needy.” Now whilst I can appreciate to an extent why he has drawn this conclusion – after all, if you had your opportunity to have your cake and eat it, you would – it really does fail to address the core issue with being with a man who still has an active online dating profile and is continuing to fill his boots and shop around.But after a few months into our relationship, I did a random check and his profile was visible again.But he seemed to be checking it only every few days.
So what if you have met a guy and discovered that he’s still ‘shopping around’ online?